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Tuesday, 16 June 2015

Playing to Win....For Women Only

Playing to Win....For Women Only
      

As a Woman:

Your BEAUTY may attract your husband, but your WISDOM will continue to keep him!

Your ELEGANCE may catch his ATTENTION, but your INTELLIGENCE convinces him!

NAGGING irritates your husband, but your "Constructive Silence" weakens him!


Don't compete with him or prove to him you know better...it doesn't make sense...you are only there to add value

Remember that the "boyish" character in your husband comes out occasionally, But your ability to always handle it, is a sign that you are a MATURED WIFE!

Every man has "Secret Struggles and Pains, including your husband, if you should ever find them out from him, Please exhibit the greatest maturity by asking the Originator of your marriage, (THE HOLY SPIRIT) to help you with USEFUL IDEAS, that you will suggest to him (your husband)!

Never allow his single life be better than his marriage life...its proof you haven't added anything..you are a blessing...let it show

Earn your husband's respect and he will consider you as the yard-stick for all his actions!

Learn to mould your husband's moods, and he will naturally give you his "FUTURE" as he recalls your maturity in the past issues!

A man should have a woman who prays for him...don't abdicate that responsibility.

When he complains about something more than once..pay attention to it (make him see reasons or offer explanations as the case may require)...dont let it degenerate into a conflict before you know its serious to him

Note: No one is awarded for winning arguments....so don't try to win any or show how right you are (even when you are)...learn how to make your points clear..avoid frictions and let him know its out of respect for him...

Don't be selfish in love...no mater how he may want to lavish love or affection on you, always look for ways to reciprocate in equal measure as this enhances your value in any relationship

In the long-run, Your WORDS matters to your husband than your "LOOKS"! So always invest the RIGHT WORDS!

 Note that, WOMEN are everywhere, but REAL WIVES are scarce,
let the QUEEN in you come alive, and your husband will always hold you in a very HIGH ESTEEM!
#GoldenaAdvice #Wisdom #FocusOnSubstance #NoShadowBoxing

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